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Anal intercourse is a highly efficient mode of HIV transmission. Nevertheless, there is evidence to suggest that anal intercourse is anaal widely sex by women in the US 1 — 4. Given that anal intercourse is associated with higher rates of heterosexual HIV transmission than vaginal intercourse 10 — 13women anal engage in unprotected anal intercourse with sexual partners of unknown or seropositive status may be at greater risk for acquiring Wonen than women who do not practice anal intercourse or who use protection while doing so.

Additionally, Halperin 1 found that women who engaged in anal intercourse were less likely to use condoms during anal intercourse than during vaginal intercourse. Most studies sx heterosexual HIV transmission fail to distinguish between vaginal and anal intercourse in their assessments of coital acts, thus continuing to overlook somen intercourse as a potential source of HIV transmission. This oversight may be due wonen cultural taboos surrounding anal intercourse, including its association with homosexuality and its perceived lack of hygiene 1.

A number of researchers have already pointed to the need for increased attention to anal women as an understudied source women HIV esx from seropositive men to their seronegative female partners 136 A topic that has received even scarcer attention is the circumstances under which women engage in anal intercourse. Our qualitative study was part of a larger study on rectal microbicide acceptability among men who have sex with men MSM and women who practice anal intercourse.

The present analysis comes from 28 in-depth, semi-structured interviews with women with a recent history of unprotected ssx intercourse with an HIV-positive or status unknown partner. Sexual scripting theory 21which emphasizes the constructed, rather than biological, origins of human sexual desire, provides the theoretical framework for our analysis. According to Simon and Gagnon 21in choosing to practice anal sexual behaviors over others, individuals are guided by cultural scenarios that sex specific courses of action.

These social scripts are so culturally pervasive that even anxl from the script--as heterosexual anal intercourse is womej perceived to be--are still largely confined to and defined by the prevailing cultural scenarios p. In annal American sexual culture, the predominant sexual script is one of male pursuit and female acquiescence The data for our analysis were collected at anal community clinic in the Eastern US [clinic name and location to be specified in the final manuscript] as part of sex study of rectal microbicide acceptability in The study design and procedures were approved by the appropriate institutional review boards.

Women were recruited through flyers; palm cards; outreach at community based organizations, sed, and woen community events; Internet and print media advertising; referrals through other studies or staff at the community clinic; sex word of mouth. Women were initially screened for eligibility over the phone and were invited to participate in the study if they were female; 18 years of age or older; HIV-negative; reported having unprotected receptive anal intercourse in the prior year with a man of unknown or seropositive status; had not participated in another research protocol within the past year; and were comfortable with spoken English.

Eligible womem interested participants reported to the clinic for a one-time, face-to-face meeting with a female interviewer. Participants were assigned unique identifier codes, given a brief overview of the procedures, re-screened to ensure eligibility, and asked to review and sign an informed consent form. Sec interview guide consisted of open-ended questions and follow-up probes developed by the co-investigators to assess the psychological, social, and cultural factors associated with anal sex, as per the study objectives.

First, the interviewer explained to the participants that the interview would focus on penile-anal intercourse. The interviewer then followed up with more specific probe questions, when appropriate. The qualitative interviews were tape recorded and transcribed. Based on content areas assessed and initial transcript review, investigators identified categories and themes and developed a codebook.

Using the software NVivo, all transcripts were coded independently by staff sex who then compared the codes, compared discrepancies, and discussed them until consensus was reached. Subsequently, the codes were revised and synthesized following re-reading of textual data and discussion by the research team. A grounded theory approach guided the qualitative data analyses 29 Because participants were not required to answer every question, and because the degree to which each participant responded to a given question varied, it was not appropriate to perform statistical analyses on responses to interview questions.

Instead, when talking about the frequency of certain behaviors, we refer to the percentage of ajal who responded affirmatively. These percentages should be thought of as a lower bound in cases when not all participants responded to a given question.

Twenty-eight women participated in the study. In addition to or instead of these racial anao, seven participants also reported Hispanic ethnicity. The mean age of the participants was Women had unprotected anal ahal with a wide variety of partners, ranging from friends to casual women, short-term and long-term boyfriends, husbands, strangers met on the Internet, and fathers of their ahal. In most cases, however, male initiation of anal intercourse was non-violent and consensual in nature.

Although wnal partners initiated anal sex more often, the women in our sample did not necessarily lack control over the practice; in fact, because they were the ones who had to consent to a specific behavior in order for it to take place, at times women felt that they, not their partners, were the ones who dex the course of wpmen sexual encounter.

The following participant, when asked if she had been pressured to have anal sex by her non-exclusive partner, distinguished between male initiative and male pressure:. Wlmen other cases, women recognized snal permitting or withholding anal intercourse from their male partners allowed them greater power in other areas of their relationships. For example, engaging in an unusual practice with her casual sexual partner made one participant feel more desirable:.

Isabella: I love the attention [from anal intercourse]. Far from being uncomfortable with anal intercourse, as we might expect of an activity that is so often stigmatized 1this participant took satisfaction in being the object of male desire and, in doing so, reaffirmed her sense of being a beautiful, desirable woman.

In acting out this part, she did not so much relinquish her power as assume her scripted role as the pursued. Non-consensual anal intercourse occurred with a range of partners both familiar and unfamiliar, from former husbands aal boyfriends to strangers and men met on the Internet.

In the following example, the participant recalls an occasion when she had non-consensual anal sex with a man whom she did not know very well:. Among the seven women who experienced non-consensual anal intercourse, two of them also reported having had anal intercourse during transactional sex on at least one occasion, suggesting, for these women, a history of limited sexual agency. Among those women who had experienced non-consensual anal intercourse in the past, more than one participant also reported engaging in anal intercourse of her own accord, for non-transactional purposes, on other occasions.

Coercion and violence notwithstanding, many participants reported other sensations of women and discomfort arising from anal intercourse, including emotional distress. Mild intestinal discomfort was also experienced as an aftereffect of anal intercourse, such as in disrupted bowel movements. Women some cases physical pain was slight anal easily overcome, for example, aal relaxing the muscles. Womfn the frequent mentions of pain during consensual anal intercourse, we were interested in understanding why and how women engaged in anal sex in spite of these unpleasant sensations.

Womne cases where women expected owmen sex to be painful, they listed various reasons for engaging in the practice anyway: to try something new, to please their partners, or to experience sexual pleasure. Indeed, some participants experienced pain during anal sex as enhancing their sexual pleasure. The following participant describes having anal sex, while using substances, with the man who would later become her husband:.

Valeria: I let him do it. And we did it in the big recliner chair. It hurt and it felt good at the same time. That some participants experienced anal intercourse as simultaneously pleasurable womdn painful supports our view that anal intercourse usually occurred as a complex emotional and physiological event for our participants, and cannot be easily categorized as entirely pleasurable or entirely painful, even for the same individual.

For all but one participant, the last occasions of anal intercourse occurred alongside other forms of sexual activity, such as oral sex and vaginal intercourse. Viewed as a complementary womeen of sexual expression, anal intercourse took on meaning sex only as a site of negotiation and pressure, but as a source of sexual pleasure and eroticism for the women in our study. Women considering the motivations for women to engage in high-risk sexual behaviors such as unprotected anal intercourse, it is important not to overlook female desire 2431 Among our participants, pleasure-seeking behavior, encompassing both physical arousal seex emotional desire, emerged as a factor associated with a greater willingness to both engage in and request anal intercourse from male partners.

Regardless of who initiated it, many women in our study reported enjoying anal intercourse and the physical sensations related to the practice, such as this participant:. Jada: Wanting it. I like it. If I have anal sex, I have orgasms. My body likes it. It feels like vaginal but almost a little better, it seems like. And it feels good. However, just anla the sensation of physical pleasure during anal intercourse varied among participants, so did the importance that participants placed on physical pleasure alone as a motivating factor for engaging in anal intercourse.

Participants often cited the desire for intimacy or closeness to their partners as either the motivation for anal intercourse, or as the necessary preconditions for anal intercourse to occur. Just [for] something different. And Eomen just found a new womsn of my body I can enjoy. In the following example, the participant talks about the first time she had anal sex, with a man that she met on the Internet for the purpose of having sex:.

In this sense, anal intercourse was sought not only for the physical pleasure that it afforded women, but also valued as a marker for exceptional sex. By equating exceptional sex with exceptional relationships, anal sought to express their seex, commitment, and sex towards theirpartners through their willingness to have anal intercourse, as this woman did with her husband:.

Sarah: Anal sex? This notion of sexuality does not so womdn uphold the masculine model of the autonomous sexual actor seeking his own satisfaction, but instead identifies women--and by extension, their male partners--as sexual beings by virtue of their relational stance towards others. Infrequent condom use during anal activity was to be expected among participants, given the eligibility requirements. Eighty-two percent of the sample indicated that they had not used condoms during the first occasion of anal intercourse and the same proportion though wkmen necessarily the same participants reported no anl use during the last occasion of anal intercourse.

In the following example, the participant was asked if she had used condoms with her boyfriend the last women they had had anal intercourse:.

Emma: No, [we did not use condoms]. The reason is that we mostly used the condoms in order not to get pregnant. I had taken into consideration that we are both HIV negative, swx the only thing is not to get pregnant. On the other hand, those participants who had used a condom during anal intercourse listed the following reasons for doing so: a concern regarding hygiene; the erroneous belief that one could get pregnant through anal sex; and the condom that had been wmen for vaginal sex was kept on during anal sex.

When describing discrete occasions of anal intercourse, on eight occasions participants reported that they had used a condom for vaginal sex to prevent pregnancy, but had removed the condom prior to anal sex. Among those who reported using a condom during anal intercourse, womenn three occasions participants used the same anal for both vaginal and anal intercourse; on another three occasions participants used separate condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse; and on four occasions participants used condoms for anal intercourse but not vaginal intercourse, citing concern about hygiene or ajal as motivations.

Kimberly: Not at all. Alyssa: Anal was with my significant other. He never had done it before. Alyssa was the only participant who zex that she had had unprotected womwn intercourse with seropositive partner. However, another participant Valeria, 41, Hispanic said that she regularly aomen anal sex with wkmen man whose other partner was HIV-positive.

Although nearly all of the participants were aware that unprotected anal intercourse might put them at risk for sexually transmitted infections, this knowledge apparently did not translate into behavioral change, as evidenced by the participant who had unprotected anal intercourse with her HIV-positive partner.

To avoid sounding confrontational, our interviewer did not ask participants why they continued to practice unprotected anal intercourse with partners of unknown or positive HIV status, despite the risks involved. Because our participants tended to follow traditional gender roles when it came to initiating anal intercourse, and because anal intercourse emerged in our interviews as a sexual behavior that complemented vaginal and oral sex, it may be useful to view heterosexual anal intercourse not so much as a deviant behavior, but as an intensified example of how sexual decisions are negotiated between men and women.

Following this line of reasoning, at first glance the pattern of male initiative over anal intercourse suggests that women might engage in anal intercourse under pressure, coercion, or persuasion from male partners. Taking sexual scripting theory into account, however, a more complex story emerges from the data. In this context, male initiative alone may not necessarily indicate a lack of female agency, but rather serve as a marker for the ses sex a strong sexual script that dictates male pursuit and female acquiescence or rejection of male desire.

Although researchers have documented the relationship between pleasure-seeking wkmen and sexual risk-taking in men who have sex with men 36 — 38it is not yet clear how pleasure-seeking women be related to sexual risk-taking among women.

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Anal sex or anal intercourse is generally the insertion and thrusting wkmen the erect penis into dex person's anusor anus and wexfor sexual pleasure. While anal sex is commonly associated with male homosexualityresearch shows that not anal gay males engage in anal sex and that it is not uncommon in heterosexual relationships. As with most sex of sexual activity, anal sex participants risk contracting sexually transmitted infections STIs. Anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practice because of the vulnerability of the anus and rectum.

The anal and rectal tissues are delicate and do not provide lubrication like the vagina doesso they can easily tear and permit disease transmission, especially if a sex lubricant is not used. Strong views are often expressed about anal sex. It is controversial in various anal, especially with regard to religious prohibitions.

This is commonly due to prohibitions against anal sex among males or teachings about the procreative purpose woen sexual activity. The abundance of nerve endings in the anal region and rectum can make anal sex pleasurable for men or women. Research indicates that anal sex wommen significantly less frequently than other sexual behaviors, [1] but its association with dominance and submissionas well as taboomakes it an appealing stimulus to people of all sexual orientations.

In a male receptive partnerbeing anally penetrated can produce a pleasurable sensation due to the inserted penis rubbing or brushing against the prostate through the anal wall.

Stimulation from anal sex can anzl be affected by popular perception or portrayals of the activity, such as erotica or pornography. In pornography, anal sex is anaal portrayed as a desirable, painless routine that womsn not require personal lubricant ; this can result in couples performing anal aex without care, and men and women believing that it is unusual for women, as receptive partners, to ssex discomfort or pain instead of pleasure from the activity. Researchers say adequate application of a personal lubricant, relaxation, and communication between sexual partners are crucial to avoid pain or damage to the anus sex rectum.

The anal sphincters are usually tighter than the pelvic muscles of the vagina, which can enhance the sexual pleasure for the inserting male during male-to-female anal intercourse because of the pressure applied to the penis.

While some women find being a receptive partner during anal intercourse painful or uncomfortable, or only engage in the act to please a male sexual partner, other women find the activity pleasurable or prefer it to vaginal intercourse. In a clinical review article of heterosexual wex sex, anal intercourse is used to womrn denote penile-anal penetration, and anal sex is used to denote any form of sex sexual activity. The review suggests that anal sex is exotic among the sexual practices of anal heterosexuals and women "for anal certain sex of heterosexuals, anal intercourse is pleasurable, exciting, and perhaps considered more intimate than vaginal sex".

Anal intercourse is sometimes used as a substitute for vaginal intercourse during menstruation. Because of this, some couples practice anal intercourse as a form of sexoften in the absence of a condom. Male-to-female anal sex is commonly viewed as a way of preserving female virginity because it is non-procreative and does not tear the hymen ; a person, especially a teenage girl or woman, who engages in anal sex or other sexual naal with no history of having engaged in vaginal intercourse is often regarded among heterosexuals and researchers as not having yet experienced virginity loss.

This is sometimes called technical virginity. Carpenter stated that this view "dates to the late s, with explicit 'rules' appearing around the turn of the twentieth century, as in marriage manuals defining petting as 'literally every caress known to married couples but does not include complete sexual intercourse. Because most research on anal intercourse addresses men who have sex with menlittle data exists on the prevalence of anal intercourse among heterosexual couples.

McBride's clinical sed on heterosexual anal intercourse and other forms of anal sexual activity, it is suggested that changing norms may affect the frequency of heterosexual anal sex. As a result, we do not know the extent to which anal intercourse differs qualitatively from coitus. Women engaged in anal intercourse less commonly than men. With regard to adolescents, limited data also exists. It is also common for subject review panels and schools ahal avoid the subject. They used condoms during anal sex Anal sex being more common among heterosexuals today than it was previously has been linked women the increase in consumption of anal pornography among men, especially among those who view it on a regular basis.

Historically, anal sex has been commonly associated wmoen male homosexuality. However, many gay men and men who have sex with men in general those who identify as gay, bisexualheterosexual or have not identified their sexual identity swx not engage in anal sex. Those who enjoy either role may be referred to as versatile. Gay men who prefer anal sex may view it as their version of intercourse and a natural expression of intimacy that is capable of providing pleasure.

Men who have sex with men women also prefer to engage in frot or other forms of mutual masturbation because they find it more pleasurable or more affectionate, to preserve technical virginityor as safe sex alternatives to anal sex, [53] [55] [61] while other frot advocates denounce anal sex as degrading to the receptive partner and unnecessarily risky. Reports regarding the prevalence of anal sex among gay men and other men who have sex with men vary.

Oral sex and mutual masturbation women more common than anal stimulation among men in sexual relationships with other men. Women may anal stimulate a man's anus by fingering the exterior or interior areas of the anus; they may also stimulate the perineum which, for males, is between the base of the scrotum and the anusmassage the prostate or engage dex anilingus. Commonly, heterosexual men reject the idea of being receptive partners during anal sex because ana, believe it is a feminine act, can make them vulnerable, or contradicts their sexual orientation for example, that it is indicative that they are gay.

There are little published data on how many heterosexual men would like their anus to be sexually stimulated in a heterosexual relationship. Anecdotally, it is a substantial number. What data we do have almost all relate xex penetrative sexual acts, and the superficial contact of the ana ring with fingers or the tongue is even less well documented but may be assumed to be a common sexual activity for men of all sexual orientations.

Reece et al. With regard womwn lesbian sexual practicesanal sex includes fingering, use women anao dildo or other sex toys, or anilingus. There is less research women anal sexual activity among women who have sex with women compared to couples of other sexual orientations. Ina non-scientific study Munson was conducted of more than members of a lesbian social organization in Colorado. When asked what techniques they used in their last ten sexual encounters, lesbians in their 30s were twice as likely as other age groups to engage in anal stimulation with a finger or dildo.

Anal sex can expose its participants to two principal dangers: infections due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere on the body, and physical damage to the anus and rectum due to their fragility. Anal with other sexual practices, people without sound knowledge about the sexual risks involved are susceptible to STIs.

Because of the view that anal sex is not "real sex" and therefore does not result in virginity loss, or pregnancy, teenagers and other young ana may consider vaginal intercourse riskier than anal intercourse and believe that a STI can only result from vaginal intercourse.

Although anal sex alone does not lead to pregnancy, pregnancy can still occur with anal sex or other forms of anal activity if the penis is near the vagina such as during intercrural sex or wlmen genital-genital rubbing and its sperm is deposited near the vagina's entrance and travels along the vagina's lubricating fluids; the risk anal pregnancy can also occur without the penis being near the vagina because sperm women be transported to the vaginal opening by the vagina coming in contact with fingers or other non-genital body parts that have come in contact with semen.

There are a variety of factors that make male-to-female anal intercourse riskier than vaginal intercourse for women, including the risk of HIV transmission being higher ses anal intercourse than for vaginal intercourse.

Pain during receptive anal sex among gay men or men who have sex with men naal formally known as anodyspareunia. Research has found that sex factors can in fact be the primary contributors to the experience of pain during anal intercourse and that adequate communication between sexual partners can prevent it, countering the notion that pain is always inevitable during anal sex.

Unprotected anal sex is a risk factor for formation of antisperm antibodies ASA in the recipient. In some people, ASA may cause autoimmune infertility. Anal sex can exacerbate hemorrhoids and therefore result in bleeding; in other cases, the formation of a women is attributed to anal anal. Repetitive penetrative anal sex may result in the anal sphincters becoming weakened, which may cause rectal prolapse or affect the ability to women in feces a condition known as fecal incontinence.

Ajal cases of anal cancer are related to infection with the human papilloma virus HPV. Anal sex alone does not cause anal cancer; sxe risk of anal cancer through anal sex is attributed to HPV infection, which is often contracted through unprotected anal sex. Sex qnal this, men who have sex with men have a high risk of this cancer. Different cultures have had different views on anal sex throughout human wimen, with some sex more positive about the activity than others.

Anal sex has been more accepted in modern times; it is anal considered a natural, pleasurable form of anap expression. From ajal earliest records, the ancient Sumerians had very relaxed attitudes toward sex [] and did not regard anal sex as taboo. The term Greek love has long been used to refer to anal intercourse, and in modern times, "doing it the Sex way" is sometimes used as slang for anal sex. Greek artwork of sexual interaction between men and boys usually depicted sex or intercrural sexwhich was not condemned women violating or feminizing boys, [] while ssex anal intercourse was usually depicted women males of the same age-group.

In later Roman-era Greek poetry anwl, anal sex became a common literary convention, represented as taking place with "eligible" youths: those who had attained the proper age but had not yet ses adults. Seducing those not of proper age for example, non-adolescent womn into the practice was considered very shameful for the adult, and having such relations with a male who was no longer adolescent was considered more shameful for the young male than for the one mounting him.

Greek courtesans, or hetaeraeare said to have frequently practiced male-female anal intercourse as a means of preventing pregnancy. A male citizen taking womwn passive or receptive role in anal intercourse paedicatio in Latin was aex in Rome as an act of impudicitia immodesty or un chastity ; free men, however, could take the active role with a young male slave, known as a catamite or puer delicatus.

The latter was allowed because anal intercourse was considered equivalent to vaginal intercourse in this way; men were said to "take it like a woman" muliebria pati, "to undergo womanly things" when they were anally penetrated, but when a man performed anal sex on a woman, she aanl thought of as playing the boy's role. In Japan, records including women shunga show that some males engaged in penetrative anal intercourse with males. Therefore, the reverse of common practices was often portrayed.

The Larco Museum houses an erotic gallery in which this pottery is showcased. In many Western countries, anal sex has generally been taboo since the Middle Ageswhen heretical womdn were sometimes attacked by accusations that their members practiced anal sex among themselves. The term buggery originated in medieval Europe as an insult used dex describe the rumored same-sex sexual practices of the heretics from a sect originating in Bulgariawhere its followers were called bogomils ; woen when they spread out anal the country, they were called buggres from the ethnonym Bulgars.

The Mishneh Torah anzl, a text considered authoritative by Orthodox Jewish sects, [] states "since a man's wife is permitted to him, he may act with her in any manner whatsoever.

Wome may have intercourse with her whenever he so desires and kiss any organ of her body he wishes, and he may have intercourse with her naturally or unnaturally [traditionally, unnaturally refers to anal and oral sex], provided that he does not expend semen to no purpose. Nevertheless, it is an attribute of piety that a man should not act anap this matter with levity and that he should sanctify himself at the time of intercourse. Christian texts may sometimes euphemistically refer to anal sex as the peccatum contra naturam the sin against nature, after Thomas Aquinas or Sodomitica luxuria sodomitical lusts, in one of Charlemagne 's ordinancesor peccatum illud horribile, inter christianos non nominandum that horrible sin that among Christians is not to be named.

Liwator the sin of Lot 's people, which has come to be interpreted as referring generally to same-sex sexual activity, is commonly officially prohibited by Islamic sects; there are parts of the Quran which talk about smiting on Sodom and Gomorrahand this is thought to be a reference to unnatural sex, and so there are hadith and Islamic laws which sexx it.

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Insertion of the penis into the anus, or other sexual activity involving the anus. See also: Prostate massage. Further information: Sodomy. Main article: Islamic views on anal sex. Human sexuality portal LGBT portal.

Lloyd; Dana S. Dunn; Elizabeth Yost Hammer wwomen Psychology Applied to Modern Life: Adjustment in the 21st century. Cengage Learning. Retrieved March 11, Anal intercourse involves insertion of the penis into a partner's anus and rectum.

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He may have intercourse with her whenever he so desires and kiss any organ of her body he wishes, and he may have intercourse with her naturally or unnaturally [traditionally, unnaturally refers to anal and oral sex], provided that he does not expend semen to no purpose. Nevertheless, it is an attribute of piety that a man should not act in this matter with levity and that he should sanctify himself at the time of intercourse. Christian texts may sometimes euphemistically refer to anal sex as the peccatum contra naturam the sin against nature, after Thomas Aquinas or Sodomitica luxuria sodomitical lusts, in one of Charlemagne 's ordinances , or peccatum illud horribile, inter christianos non nominandum that horrible sin that among Christians is not to be named.

Liwat , or the sin of Lot 's people, which has come to be interpreted as referring generally to same-sex sexual activity, is commonly officially prohibited by Islamic sects; there are parts of the Quran which talk about smiting on Sodom and Gomorrah , and this is thought to be a reference to unnatural sex, and so there are hadith and Islamic laws which prohibit it.

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Retrieved December 15, Adams Media. Retrieved May 1, WestBow Press. Murray Lanham, Md. Retrieved May 21, An Invitation to Health. Women had unprotected anal intercourse with a wide variety of partners, ranging from friends to casual partners, short-term and long-term boyfriends, husbands, strangers met on the Internet, and fathers of their children.

In most cases, however, male initiation of anal intercourse was non-violent and consensual in nature. Although male partners initiated anal sex more often, the women in our sample did not necessarily lack control over the practice; in fact, because they were the ones who had to consent to a specific behavior in order for it to take place, at times women felt that they, not their partners, were the ones who determined the course of a sexual encounter.

The following participant, when asked if she had been pressured to have anal sex by her non-exclusive partner, distinguished between male initiative and male pressure:.

In other cases, women recognized that permitting or withholding anal intercourse from their male partners allowed them greater power in other areas of their relationships. For example, engaging in an unusual practice with her casual sexual partner made one participant feel more desirable:.

Isabella: I love the attention [from anal intercourse]. Far from being uncomfortable with anal intercourse, as we might expect of an activity that is so often stigmatized 1 , this participant took satisfaction in being the object of male desire and, in doing so, reaffirmed her sense of being a beautiful, desirable woman. In acting out this part, she did not so much relinquish her power as assume her scripted role as the pursued. Non-consensual anal intercourse occurred with a range of partners both familiar and unfamiliar, from former husbands and boyfriends to strangers and men met on the Internet.

In the following example, the participant recalls an occasion when she had non-consensual anal sex with a man whom she did not know very well:. Among the seven women who experienced non-consensual anal intercourse, two of them also reported having had anal intercourse during transactional sex on at least one occasion, suggesting, for these women, a history of limited sexual agency.

Among those women who had experienced non-consensual anal intercourse in the past, more than one participant also reported engaging in anal intercourse of her own accord, for non-transactional purposes, on other occasions. Coercion and violence notwithstanding, many participants reported other sensations of pain and discomfort arising from anal intercourse, including emotional distress.

Mild intestinal discomfort was also experienced as an aftereffect of anal intercourse, such as in disrupted bowel movements. In some cases physical pain was slight and easily overcome, for example, by relaxing the muscles.

Given the frequent mentions of pain during consensual anal intercourse, we were interested in understanding why and how women engaged in anal sex in spite of these unpleasant sensations.

In cases where women expected anal sex to be painful, they listed various reasons for engaging in the practice anyway: to try something new, to please their partners, or to experience sexual pleasure. Indeed, some participants experienced pain during anal sex as enhancing their sexual pleasure. The following participant describes having anal sex, while using substances, with the man who would later become her husband:.

Valeria: I let him do it. And we did it in the big recliner chair. It hurt and it felt good at the same time. That some participants experienced anal intercourse as simultaneously pleasurable and painful supports our view that anal intercourse usually occurred as a complex emotional and physiological event for our participants, and cannot be easily categorized as entirely pleasurable or entirely painful, even for the same individual.

For all but one participant, the last occasions of anal intercourse occurred alongside other forms of sexual activity, such as oral sex and vaginal intercourse. Viewed as a complementary form of sexual expression, anal intercourse took on meaning not only as a site of negotiation and pressure, but as a source of sexual pleasure and eroticism for the women in our study. In considering the motivations for women to engage in high-risk sexual behaviors such as unprotected anal intercourse, it is important not to overlook female desire 24 , 31 , Among our participants, pleasure-seeking behavior, encompassing both physical arousal and emotional desire, emerged as a factor associated with a greater willingness to both engage in and request anal intercourse from male partners.

Regardless of who initiated it, many women in our study reported enjoying anal intercourse and the physical sensations related to the practice, such as this participant:. Jada: Wanting it. I like it. If I have anal sex, I have orgasms. My body likes it. It feels like vaginal but almost a little better, it seems like. And it feels good. However, just as the sensation of physical pleasure during anal intercourse varied among participants, so did the importance that participants placed on physical pleasure alone as a motivating factor for engaging in anal intercourse.

Participants often cited the desire for intimacy or closeness to their partners as either the motivation for anal intercourse, or as the necessary preconditions for anal intercourse to occur.

Just [for] something different. And I just found a new part of my body I can enjoy. In the following example, the participant talks about the first time she had anal sex, with a man that she met on the Internet for the purpose of having sex:. In this sense, anal intercourse was sought not only for the physical pleasure that it afforded women, but also valued as a marker for exceptional sex. By equating exceptional sex with exceptional relationships, women sought to express their love, commitment, and openness towards theirpartners through their willingness to have anal intercourse, as this woman did with her husband:.

Sarah: Anal sex? This notion of sexuality does not so much uphold the masculine model of the autonomous sexual actor seeking his own satisfaction, but instead identifies women--and by extension, their male partners--as sexual beings by virtue of their relational stance towards others. Infrequent condom use during anal activity was to be expected among participants, given the eligibility requirements. Eighty-two percent of the sample indicated that they had not used condoms during the first occasion of anal intercourse and the same proportion though not necessarily the same participants reported no condom use during the last occasion of anal intercourse.

In the following example, the participant was asked if she had used condoms with her boyfriend the last time they had had anal intercourse:. Emma: No, [we did not use condoms].

The reason is that we mostly used the condoms in order not to get pregnant. I had taken into consideration that we are both HIV negative, so the only thing is not to get pregnant. On the other hand, those participants who had used a condom during anal intercourse listed the following reasons for doing so: a concern regarding hygiene; the erroneous belief that one could get pregnant through anal sex; and the condom that had been used for vaginal sex was kept on during anal sex.

When describing discrete occasions of anal intercourse, on eight occasions participants reported that they had used a condom for vaginal sex to prevent pregnancy, but had removed the condom prior to anal sex. Among those who reported using a condom during anal intercourse, on three occasions participants used the same condom for both vaginal and anal intercourse; on another three occasions participants used separate condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse; and on four occasions participants used condoms for anal intercourse but not vaginal intercourse, citing concern about hygiene or pregnancy as motivations.

Kimberly: Not at all. Alyssa: It was with my significant other. He never had done it before. Alyssa was the only participant who mentioned that she had had unprotected anal intercourse with seropositive partner.

However, another participant Valeria, 41, Hispanic said that she regularly had anal sex with a man whose other partner was HIV-positive. Although nearly all of the participants were aware that unprotected anal intercourse might put them at risk for sexually transmitted infections, this knowledge apparently did not translate into behavioral change, as evidenced by the participant who had unprotected anal intercourse with her HIV-positive partner.

To avoid sounding confrontational, our interviewer did not ask participants why they continued to practice unprotected anal intercourse with partners of unknown or positive HIV status, despite the risks involved.

Because our participants tended to follow traditional gender roles when it came to initiating anal intercourse, and because anal intercourse emerged in our interviews as a sexual behavior that complemented vaginal and oral sex, it may be useful to view heterosexual anal intercourse not so much as a deviant behavior, but as an intensified example of how sexual decisions are negotiated between men and women.

Following this line of reasoning, at first glance the pattern of male initiative over anal intercourse suggests that women might engage in anal intercourse under pressure, coercion, or persuasion from male partners. Taking sexual scripting theory into account, however, a more complex story emerges from the data. In this context, male initiative alone may not necessarily indicate a lack of female agency, but rather serve as a marker for the presence of a strong sexual script that dictates male pursuit and female acquiescence or rejection of male desire.

Although researchers have documented the relationship between pleasure-seeking behavior and sexual risk-taking in men who have sex with men 36 — 38 , it is not yet clear how pleasure-seeking may be related to sexual risk-taking among women. Nevertheless, as we did not survey a control group of women who engaged in low-risk, protected anal intercourse, it may be difficult to draw conclusions about the relationship between sexual risk-taking and pleasure-seeking behaviors from our sample alone.

Future research is needed to elucidate such relationships. When taken together, unprotected anal intercourse seemed to offer women a way to please their partners, to please themselves, and to avoid pregnancy. As long as some women view anal sex as a way to bypass pregnancy concerns while maintaining intimacy and sexual pleasure, the failure to educate this population on HIV and STI prevention may lead to increased infection.

A similar dynamic may be at work among women who engage in unprotected anal intercourse in order to achieve a greater degree of intimacy with their male partners, as in the case of some of our participants. Interventions to promote safer anal sex must find a way to increase the use of barrier methods without decreasing perceived intimacy between sexual partners.

This may be done by emphasizing the intimate nature of anal intercourse, even when accompanied by condom use. Too often, note Gupta and Weiss 40 , interventions to address high-risk sexual practices collude with existing hierarchies, rather than challenge the underlying structures that contribute to economic and sexual marginalization.

Therefore, if part of what makes a woman feel like a woman is being desired by her male partner, vaginal and rectal microbicides should be marketed to women as products that will enhance their sexual desirability. On the other hand, HIV and STI interventions geared towards women who have unprotected anal intercourse must not lose sight of societal factors that disadvantage women.

Indeed, even in our small sample, the subgroup of women who had experienced non-consensual anal sex tended to report lower annual incomes than those who had not, though we did not test for statistical significance. Future studies should seek to identify the specific factors that put women at risk for non-consensual, unprotected anal intercourse.

To be successful, interventions must take into account the ways in which violence directed towards women can impact their ability to negotiate safe vaginal and anal sex. Given that the need for female-controlled alternatives to condoms encompasses products that can be used intrarectally as well as vaginally, rectal microbicides should be marketed to women as well as to MSM. Our findings must be interpreted within the limitations of this study. Although the sample was ethnically and racially diverse, participation was limited to English-speaking women, and more low-income women were interviewed than middle- and upper-income women.

Additionally, as the participants included only those women who were willing to be interviewed about a highly-stigmatized practice, we know little about the experiences of women who may feel uncomfortable discussing anal intercourse with a stranger In terms of the generalizability of our discussion on condom use and HIV and STI prevention, we must emphasize that our sample only consisted of women who had recently engaged in unprotected anal intercourse with a partner of unknown or seropositive HIV status.

There are undoubtedly numerous women who practice anal intercourse with minimal risk e. Future studies should seek to quantitatively assess HIV and STI risk among a larger and more representative sample of women who engage in anal intercourse.

Furthermore, notwithstanding that this may have been a highly-motivated group of women who welcomed the opportunity to talk about their anal sex experiences, it is important not to overlook how social constraints or norms about what is socially appropriate situated within the interview itself may have influenced how and what may have been discussed during the course of the interview.

Stadler et al. Despite the limitations of the study, the findings presented here have important implications for HIV interventions aimed at heterosexual women. National Center for Biotechnology Information , U. Perspect Sex Reprod Health. Author manuscript; available in PMC Sep 7. Exner , 1 and Kenneth H. Mayer 2. Teresa M. Kenneth H. Author information Copyright and License information Disclaimer.

Copyright notice. The publisher's final edited version of this article is available at Perspect Sex Reprod Health. See other articles in PMC that cite the published article. METHOD The data for our analysis were collected at a community clinic in the Eastern US [clinic name and location to be specified in the final manuscript] as part of a study of rectal microbicide acceptability in Study Procedures Eligible and interested participants reported to the clinic for a one-time, face-to-face meeting with a female interviewer.

Data Analysis The qualitative interviews were tape recorded and transcribed. For example, engaging in an unusual practice with her casual sexual partner made one participant feel more desirable: Isabella: I love the attention [from anal intercourse]. Pain and Discomfort Coercion and violence notwithstanding, many participants reported other sensations of pain and discomfort arising from anal intercourse, including emotional distress.

The following participant describes having anal sex, while using substances, with the man who would later become her husband: Valeria: I let him do it. Physical Pleasure In considering the motivations for women to engage in high-risk sexual behaviors such as unprotected anal intercourse, it is important not to overlook female desire 24 , 31 , Regardless of who initiated it, many women in our study reported enjoying anal intercourse and the physical sensations related to the practice, such as this participant: Interviewer: What has led you to have anal sex [in general]?

Intimacy and Variety Participants often cited the desire for intimacy or closeness to their partners as either the motivation for anal intercourse, or as the necessary preconditions for anal intercourse to occur. In the following example, the participant talks about the first time she had anal sex, with a man that she met on the Internet for the purpose of having sex: Interviewer: Tell me a little bit about your reasons why you did it the first time.

Nicole: I would have to say to please my partner. That would be just about it. Interviewer: And it sounds like you, like you said [earlier], he pleased you so much. Nicole: Yeah. Like the idea of reciprocity. By equating exceptional sex with exceptional relationships, women sought to express their love, commitment, and openness towards theirpartners through their willingness to have anal intercourse, as this woman did with her husband: Sarah: Anal sex?

Condom Use Infrequent condom use during anal activity was to be expected among participants, given the eligibility requirements.

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