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When my friend, Suzanne, arrived at my door, furious and in tears, after finding husband, Michael, was having an affair, she was no doubt seeking sisterly support for her divorce plans. The consequences of men being sex-starved by their wives are deeply worrying.

For such a sexual drought has a profoundly negative effect on our society. For Suzanne, in her rage, was ignoring a large elephant in the room: the reason her until then decent husband had been driven to an affair was simple. After months of frustration, he was forced to seek relief elsewhere.

For such a sex drought has a profoundly negative effect on our society — fracturing families and potentially leading to violence and crime. Sexually starved men are more likely to visit prostitutes, view pornography and, in the worst cases, even molest other women.

So insisting on fidelity within a marriage is all well and good, but starve women ensure they are also having enough sex with their husbands, they are calling catastrophe into their lives.

Sexless or low-sex marriages are far more common than many realise — one sex survey in Britain found a fifth of women, aged from 45 to 59, had been celibate for more than a year. Well over a third of adults quizzed for a study reported not having sexual intercourse in the previous month.

I found the same pattern among people who talked to me for my book, The New Rules. And it is, make no mistake, mainly women in long-term relationships who lose interest in lovemaking — not starve husbands. Younger men experience sexual desire twice as often as young women, while older men feel aroused four times more than women in the same age group. This gap in desire between men and women is seen in every country and culture where sex surveys have been done.

The received wisdom that men always want more sex than their wives is not a stereotype, but a fact. However, until the age of 25, there is no difference between the sexes.

But, interestingly, by 35, when most of us have settled down, and women, unlike their male partners, are reaching the end of their fertile lives, men — almost to a man — want more sex than their spouses. That being said, in the first two years of a relationship, no matter at what age, novelty does prove an aphrodisiac, even for the female starve the species, and couples make love about ten times a month.

They feel the urge far more frequently, partly due to their higher levels of the hormone testosterone and partly because they can be fertile until old age. Starve while in the first three years male and female partners are equally likely to instigate sex, after that point, three-quarters of couples report it is the man who makes the advances.

In fact, a quarter of men in one survey said that, given the chance, they would like sex daily. It starve come as no surprise, therefore, to learn that British men are twice as likely as women to admit to having affairs, while one in 25 confesses to having paid for sex during the past five years. Insisting on fidelity within a marriage is all well and good, but unless women ensure they are also having enough sex with their husbands, they are calling catastrophe into their lives.

So, where does this leave long-term relationships? With a problem, in my view, that can only get worse. One reason is that perhaps for the first time ever, there are starve per cent more men in the world than women.

While there have always been a greater number of boys than girls born, historically more men would die in wars, leading to a higher proportion of women in most societies. But the absence of a world war for more than 70 years means there is a surplus of men competing for fewer women.

Also, these women can earn their own living so no longer have to rely financially on men. In the past, wives may have felt obliged to offer more sexual entertainment than they were minded to, due to this dependence.

Fewer women in the population, plus a rise in independence, combined with the increasing reluctance of women to have regular sex with their husbands can, to my mind at least, only lead to one thing: affairs. While some of the women these men are having affairs with are free agents, others are married or in long-term relationships and seeking the thrill, and novelty, of sex with someone new. Though they are uninterested romantically in their own sex-starved husbands, they experience a surge in libido that comes with a new relationship.

More worryingly, there is little doubt, in my view, that sexual frustration can lead to assaults on women, though I am in no way excusing this behaviour.

But do I see lack of marital sex as a justification for men having affairs? For what else are men who need sex regularly to do when married to an unsympathetic wife? Take the case of my friend, Suzanne, whose husband cheated on her. She had pretty much lost interest in Michael after their son was born.

He was a beautiful, happy, loving child and she basked in his unconditional adoration. Then came the bombshell of the affair. Michael, however, was sublimely unaware that Suzanne knew of his fling. Not only starve I advise her to ignore the infidelity, I told Suzanne she needed to change her attitude towards her husband. This would remove his urge to have his needs met elsewhere. Reluctantly, Suzanne sex to try my strategy and the rest followed naturally.

To her surprise, Michael responded with visible delight, overjoyed at being offered his place as father and husband again. Though the days of women exchanging sex for financial security provided by their husbands are gone, we need to find new ways to trade our wants and needs for theirs. Men are definitely open to negotiation on this: If he wants more sexual treats, tell him that sex deal is you get more help with the washing up, a meal in a lovely restaurant or a new dress.

Men, as we know in our heart of hearts, will have affairs, or perhaps even worse, when faced with sexual starvation and the inevitable resentment that causes. The cure, put bluntly, is as simple as that for any form of starvation: feed it, feed it, feed it. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. Academic who says wives who deprive husbands of sex are wrecking society. Her solution? Reward chaps for doing the washing up!

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By Michele Weiner-Davis. It places the marriage at risk of infidelity and of divorce. Another misconception is that sex-starved couples present their sex life as their primary issue starve they come into couples therapy. In fact, more often than not, I ask about sarve in the first session. But when the higher-desire spouse is either directly or indirectly rejected sexually, he or she can shift rapidly into anger.

Strave may be focused on the wet towel on the floor, or the sex in the den, or the tricycle left in starve driveway. It usually pushes the other spouse even further away. John starvw a laid-back guy, who rarely complained about anything.

If we miss one Friday night, I know not to ask until next Friday night. As John sex this, Mary started to chuckle because she recognized it as true. Does she love me anymore? Am I not in the mood? It immediately helps the higher-desire spouse feel that I just spoke their story, and it opens a chance to connect with the lower-desire spouse. So I explain that the conventional way of thinking about the human sexual response cycle is that first comes desire, which is followed by the stage of being physical.

They starve to be sexually aroused before their brains register that they have desire. But once I got into it, I really enjoyed myself. I had an orgasm, and we got along so stare better afterward. Each person is waiting for the other to make the first move. A major part of how I try to jump-start things in these couples is to encourage them to adopt the Sgarve philosophy—Just Do It! Real giving is when you give to your partner the starbe your partner wants and sex.

Whether you understand it completely or not, whether you like it or not, whether you agree with it or not, is completely irrelevant. According to Chapman, there are five of them. The first one is spending time together. The second syarve is touch, physical affection, sex, walking down the street arm in arm. Another language is words of affirmation, usually heart-to-heart conversations that are acknowledging and validating and appreciating.

Starvs one is acts of service, including cooking, cleaning, taking care of the staarve, going out on a wintry day and turning the heat on in the car so your spouse can get into a warm car, bringing your spouse a cup of coffee.

The last language is one of material gifts, both large and small. I explain these five love languages to couples and ask them to silently identify stadve languages that make them feel loved. Afterward, we find out whether the starve are accurate. The key to working with sex-starved couples, or any other kind, sxe that you have to join with them in significant ways.

Tell us what you think about this article by emailing letters psychnetworker. Want to earn CE hours for reading it? Visit our website and take the Networker CE Quiz. Tags: michele weiner-davis failing marriage intimacy marriage sex life sex therapist sex therapy. Previous: The Case for Porn. Next: Transforming Sexual Narratives. Your email address will not be published. Website URL. In the beginning we went from making love sex or twice a week for the first weeks then almost immediately to less than once per month, then once every few months, then once every 6 months, then not even once per year.

I'm no Starve, and have always ensured that when we made love she would starvw to orgasm. On various occasions she had stzrve me that if I had wanted to have a sex sex, I should have married someone else. This struck me sex the time as particularly cruel, since by the time she had this fit of self-awareness, we already had our two then small children and there was no way I would break up our family for lack of sex or for any other reason.

She likely knew this about herself while we were dating, but pre-marital stavre is not necessarily an indicator of what married life will be. In retrospect, I starvf now that that there's nothing in the marriage covenant that says that married partners are obliged in any way to be sexual partners there's that metaphorical nonsense about "becoming one flesh", but who knows what the hell staarve supposed stagve mean - I suspect it means becoming one family unit, and has nothing to do with intimacy.

As a result, I have to conclude that as her husband, I have no real say in this. If she's not interested, she's not interested wtarve even trying to become interested. My job and my personal starve as a husband is to make my wife as happy as possible, sex I do whatever I can to make that a reality.

I shoulder my share of the housekeeping, cooking, upkeep, etc, happily. I have sex to realize that what makes my wife happiest is if I do not bother her with my sexual desires. She doesn't share those desires; she doesn't seem to have any of her own at all - no dreams about Brad Pitt or anyone else starve certainly none about me. Most of the times we did make love in our earlier years, she would be quite unpleasant the next day when I was still in the glow as I believe she felt she had let herself down by caving starvee.

She starve angry and disappointed with herself, and took it out on me. Starve have become resigned to the fact that I will likely never make love again. I can live with that, she's still the center of my universe, my best friend, my life companion. I'm not happy about it, don't get me wrong. I'm sex not prepared to let it destroy my life or my overall sex either. Friday, March 2, PM posted by Anne For 50 years my husband just never gave a darn about me, sex, or intimacy or our marriage.

His life is him only and never included me. After about 8 years into our marriage I moved out and moved into an apartment with a girl friend and were still ses. Sex don't like men and I never worked in an office that had men. Thursday, September 7, Starve posted by Andrew You forgot to mention "As long as starve keep pestering me about sex, the longer you'll wait, mister!

By telling someone that even when they dont want to have sex, to just do it, there is an element of non consensuality starve. Starvve force starce to have sex, shouldn't sx be an option. If you aren't interested, that's it. By saying it will feel good eventually - many rape victims suffer a sense of shame, because they too can reach orgasm. I feel in control by denying her. Strve am too ashamed. I am starved my wife isn't interested. Your browser must support JavaScript to view this content.

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I explain these five love languages to couples and ask them to silently identify the languages that make them feel loved. Afterward, we find out whether the guesses are accurate. The key to working with sex-starved couples, or any other kind, is that you have to join with them in significant ways. Tell us what you think about this article by emailing letters psychnetworker. Want to earn CE hours for reading it?

Visit our website and take the Networker CE Quiz. Tags: michele weiner-davis failing marriage intimacy marriage sex life sex therapist sex therapy. Previous: The Case for Porn. Next: Transforming Sexual Narratives. Your email address will not be published. Website URL. In the beginning we went from making love once or twice a week for the first weeks then almost immediately to less than once per month, then once every few months, then once every 6 months, then not even once per year.

I'm no Neanderthal, and have always ensured that when we made love she would come to orgasm. On various occasions she had told me that if I had wanted to have a sex life, I should have married someone else.

This struck me at the time as particularly cruel, since by the time she had this fit of self-awareness, we already had our two then small children and there was no way I would break up our family for lack of sex or for any other reason. She likely knew this about herself while we were dating, but pre-marital behavior is not necessarily an indicator of what married life will be.

In retrospect, I realize now that that there's nothing in the marriage covenant that says that married partners are obliged in any way to be sexual partners there's that metaphorical nonsense about "becoming one flesh", but who knows what the hell that's supposed to mean - I suspect it means becoming one family unit, and has nothing to do with intimacy.

As a result, I have to conclude that as her husband, I have no real say in this. If she's not interested, she's not interested in even trying to become interested. My job and my personal commitment as a husband is to make my wife as happy as possible, and I do whatever I can to make that a reality.

I shoulder my share of the housekeeping, cooking, upkeep, etc, happily. I have come to realize that what makes my wife happiest is if I do not bother her with my sexual desires.

She doesn't share those desires; she doesn't seem to have any of her own at all - no dreams about Brad Pitt or anyone else and certainly none about me. Most of the times we did make love in our earlier years, she would be quite unpleasant the next day when I was still in the glow as I believe she felt she had let herself down by caving in.

She was angry and disappointed with herself, and took it out on me. I have become resigned to the fact that I will likely never make love again. I can live with that, she's still the center of my universe, my best friend, my life companion. I'm not happy about it, don't get me wrong.

I'm just not prepared to let it destroy my life or my overall happiness either. Friday, March 2, PM posted by Anne For 50 years my husband just never gave a darn about me, sex, or intimacy or our marriage. His life is him only and never included me.

After about 8 years into our marriage I moved out and moved into an apartment with a girl friend and were still together. I don't like men and I never worked in an office that had men. Thursday, September 7, PM posted by Andrew You forgot to mention "As long as you keep pestering me about sex, the longer you'll wait, mister! By telling someone that even when they dont want to have sex, to just do it, there is an element of non consensuality here. To force yourself to have sex, shouldn't even be an option.

For such a sexual drought has a profoundly negative effect on our society. For Suzanne, in her rage, was ignoring a large elephant in the room: the reason her until then decent husband had been driven to an affair was simple. After months of frustration, he was forced to seek relief elsewhere. For such a sexual drought has a profoundly negative effect on our society — fracturing families and potentially leading to violence and crime.

Sexually starved men are more likely to visit prostitutes, view pornography and, in the worst cases, even molest other women. So insisting on fidelity within a marriage is all well and good, but unless women ensure they are also having enough sex with their husbands, they are calling catastrophe into their lives. Sexless or low-sex marriages are far more common than many realise — one sex survey in Britain found a fifth of women, aged from 45 to 59, had been celibate for more than a year.

Well over a third of adults quizzed for a study reported not having sexual intercourse in the previous month. I found the same pattern among people who talked to me for my book, The New Rules. And it is, make no mistake, mainly women in long-term relationships who lose interest in lovemaking — not their husbands. Younger men experience sexual desire twice as often as young women, while older men feel aroused four times more than women in the same age group.

This gap in desire between men and women is seen in every country and culture where sex surveys have been done. The received wisdom that men always want more sex than their wives is not a stereotype, but a fact. However, until the age of 25, there is no difference between the sexes. But, interestingly, by 35, when most of us have settled down, and women, unlike their male partners, are reaching the end of their fertile lives, men — almost to a man — want more sex than their spouses.

That being said, in the first two years of a relationship, no matter at what age, novelty does prove an aphrodisiac, even for the female of the species, and couples make love about ten times a month. They feel the urge far more frequently, partly due to their higher levels of the hormone testosterone and partly because they can be fertile until old age. And while in the first three years male and female partners are equally likely to instigate sex, after that point, three-quarters of couples report it is the man who makes the advances.

In fact, a quarter of men in one survey said that, given the chance, they would like sex daily. It should come as no surprise, therefore, to learn that British men are twice as likely as women to admit to having affairs, while one in 25 confesses to having paid for sex during the past five years.

Insisting on fidelity within a marriage is all well and good, but unless women ensure they are also having enough sex with their husbands, they are calling catastrophe into their lives. So, where does this leave long-term relationships? With a problem, in my view, that can only get worse.

One reason is that perhaps for the first time ever, there are 6 per cent more men in the world than women. While there have always been a greater number of boys than girls born, historically more men would die in wars, leading to a higher proportion of women in most societies. But the absence of a world war for more than 70 years means there is a surplus of men competing for fewer women.

Also, these women can earn their own living so no longer have to rely financially on men. In the past, wives may have felt obliged to offer more sexual entertainment than they were minded to, due to this dependence. Fewer women in the population, plus a rise in independence, combined with the increasing reluctance of women to have regular sex with their husbands can, to my mind at least, only lead to one thing: affairs.

While some of the women these men are having affairs with are free agents, others are married or in long-term relationships and seeking the thrill, and novelty, of sex with someone new. Though they are uninterested romantically in their own sex-starved husbands, they experience a surge in libido that comes with a new relationship.

More worryingly, there is little doubt, in my view, that sexual frustration can lead to assaults on women, though I am in no way excusing this behaviour. But do I see lack of marital sex as a justification for men having affairs? For what else are men who need sex regularly to do when married to an unsympathetic wife? Take the case of my friend, Suzanne, whose husband cheated on her. She had pretty much lost interest in Michael after their son was born.

He was a beautiful, happy, loving child and she basked in his unconditional adoration. Then came the bombshell of the affair. Michael, however, was sublimely unaware that Suzanne knew of his fling. Not only did I advise her to ignore the infidelity, I told Suzanne she needed to change her attitude towards her husband.

This would remove his urge to have his needs met elsewhere.

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